It’s been a while since there has been excitement in my family. The two youngest grandchildren are now three years old. The eldest grandchild is in middle school. And just when I think that I’ve experienced so much, my oldest child decides it’s time that he gets married. I’ve been a lot of things in my life when it comes to matrimony, and now I will be the mother of the groom.
We are just over thirty days away from the big event. I’m over here looking up what my role is traditionally. As I mentioned, I’ve participated in many things that deal with matrimony over the years. I’ve been a guest, a maid of honor, a bride, and I’ve even been a wedding officiant for a few couples. According to everything I’ve read, the groom’s parents are to pay for the rehearsal dinner and make themselves available to cover the costs for any incidentals that arise.
The cost of a wedding is super expensive. The price has only increased over the years since I went to the altar. However, nowadays, most couples foot the bill themselves; that way, they have total control of what will and will not happen. I’m thankful to be off the hook, but the stress on my baby’s face is taking a toll on me. As mother of the groom, I still want my son to be at ease. I offered to take on one thing.
Mother of the Groom Tasks
The wedding guest book is my assignment. We are going with an audio version, and I will provide the equipment and the setup. The couple is pleased with not having to deal with it. I’m happy that I can offer it. Of course, this is in addition to covering the rehearsal dinner cost.
Oddly enough, I have not decided what I wear to the event. I’m firm on a color. My color of choice is silvery grey. I wanted something neutral to avoid clashing with the wedding party. It allows me to photograph well. It will be floor length so that I can wear flat shoes. I don’t want a heel as I will mingle with all the guests during the reception. The dresses that fit my criteria will arrive at my door in the next few days. I will do a get ready with me session and choose my final fit. I can’t tell you how excited I am to be the mother of the groom.